Single not dating
Christians tend to put the decision of who to date on the same level as the decision of who to marry.
There’s so much pressure surrounding the topic, when at the end of the day, a first date is nothing more than getting to know someone better over a cup of coffee.
I’ve been pretty outspoken about how I feel about this subject.
Twenty years after the I Kissed Dating Goodbye movement, we’re finally learning to lighten up about dating. I’m a firm believer that dating in high school is something that teenagers should do without—the problem is that too many people then take that mentality long into adulthood.
We offer groups for every other category of life, but when it comes to singles—if you’re past college, there’s a good chance you’re out of luck when it comes to finding a group to connect with at your local church. I asked singles to tell me why Christian singles aren’t dating. The comments rolled in, and some fantastic conversation came of it.There’s a false standard that we’ve perpetuated and let’s just put this out there: No one is measuring up.Debra is also the creator of the popular relationship advice blog,
True Love Dates.com, reaching millions of people with the message that healthy people make healthy relationships. In fact, the majority of singles reported that when it comes to dating: They aren’t usually doing the asking.